Alcohol and Drug Dependence - At Home Rehab and Detox

Our team has long term personal experience and professionally recognised accreditations to help you find immediate and long term solutions for: 

  • Alcohol and Drug Dependence & Addiction
  • Gambling Addiction
  • Sex/Porn Addiction
  • Anxiety, Stress, Bereavement, ADHD & PTSD
  • Family Problems
  • Employment Problems
  • Debt Problems
  • Business Disputes
  • Legal Advice & Mediation for these real life issues

The Bigger Picture

Alcohol or drug dependence & addiction is not just a problem for the individual. Issues permeate through every area of not only their lives, but into the lives of others close to them. Misuse of alcohol and drugs is an obsession that will cause an immeasurable negative impact on the family, friends, and employers of the primary sufferer. It will more than likely cause anxiety and stress for the whole family. This has severe knock-on effects, affecting finances through employment, legal and business problems. There may be underlying reasons for this pressure-cooker of problems felt by everyone concerned.

SP Bespoke is a unique organisation that can help untangle the personal and work problems associated with the core issue of the alcohol or drug misuse. We get you and your family the right help for your unique set of problems.


Our team have been where you are. We can help.

‘SP Bespoke saved my daughter, my sanity and our family’.

Read the full article from The West Dorset Magazine - click here.

Shig Hayre 

This is what alcohol did to me

Until sixteen years ago, I was an international entrepreneur in the UK and USA. From humble beginnings I worked relentlessly. My businesses grew to a point where I possessed all of the trappings of wealth. For example a home with a gym and sauna, a stable of expensive motor cars, and the ability to educate my children privately.

However, the quantity of my alcohol consumption grew to beyond what I thought was a social pleasantry. Drinking turned into a daily coping mechanism, to alleviate work-related stress. It did not take too many years for my health to reach the point where the next stage would have been death. I was diagnosed with Wernicke-Korsakov syndrome, known colloquially as a ‘wet brain’. Simply put I had had enough, and couldn’t carry on.

16 Years Without an Alcoholic Drink

I thank God that my family persuaded me to seek specialist medical and psychological attention in the USA. This saved me from certain death, and only in my mid-forties! In the last sixteen years I have not picked up an alcoholic drink of any sort. My life is not only the healthier for it, but I am happier and richer in the quality of my life.

Certainly, all of my family who suffered greatly to watch me slowly killing myself now lead normal lives themselves. The curse of my addictive behaviour, that had negatively impacted their lives, has been lifted. They are worry free now and to my grandchildren I am a loving and generous Grandad; just that. I am that person because I live my life in a healthy and considerate and loving way.

My passion for recovery is limitless - I can show you how to stop, stay stopped and live better.

Over the years, I have counselled, from the heart, countless fellow alcoholics and addicts and their suffering families, many of whom now enjoy many years of peaceful sobriety. My journey from a start-up entrepreneur to successful business man, hospital in-patient, and, today, a clean living family man has given me a greater appreciation of the truly important things in life.

Moreover, I have first-hand experience of what you may be going through right now, including divorce, child contact problems, business debt, driving issues, bereavement and depression. These are real life events. I am very happy to be working in a long partnership with Paul because his values are identical to mine, to stay well and get well!

Paul Kalaher 

In 1990 I became a solicitor and in 2006 a mediator and remain on the roll of solicitors, but have retired from practising law. I complement Shig's business and people skills with added business foresight and legal analysis in a calm, friendly wellbeing first manner. My approach is to find a practical solution to legal problems.

I conducted high profile cases for blue chip clients and individuals. As a result, they found themselves exhausted and financially drained by long, life-changing legal battles.

Hard work and exhaustion lead me to look for solace in a bottle.

I turned to alcohol in a futile attempt to escape the stresses and strains of work life. This descent had to stop when my own health failed. I have been lucky enough to retain a loving family, but many are not so lucky. My wife of thirty two years and my two children have been amazingly supportive throughout but, like Shig's family, they must have been very worried at times. Along my journey I have seen many people from all walks of life divorced, become unemployable and die from their misuse of alcohol and drugs. Fortunately I have been able to help many recover to lead more fruitful lives.

My passion is to see people get well and stay well

Above all, quality of family life is vital. My passion these days is to see people get well and stay well in all areas of their life. I can fully understand how anyone, whether self- employed or employed, male or female, can feel the stresses and strains of very demanding and pressured roles and try to escape or find relief from their escalating anxiety by excessive drinking, and the like, as a coping mechanism or self-medication.